Monday, March 30, 2009

Ethical Dilemma #2 - To Tell or Not To Tell

If you knew a guy* was casually cheating on his girlfriend of 5 years, would you tell the girlfriend?

Fortunately, I wasn't faced with this as I only found out this guy cheated after I met and spoke with the girl.

If I were her, I'd want to know so I could move on and find someone better. However, I don't think I'd be able to tell her as I barely know both of them.

* works with my husband

7 comments:

The First March Girl said...

OMG that's terrible!! How many ppl know and aren't telling her??

Poor girl.

I agree, it's not really your place to tell her, but if the guy doesn't tell her, I think *someone* should. What a jerk.

Zoe said...

The guys from Dan's work know. I know someone should tell her but who?

The girl seemed so nice too.

The First March Girl said...

Well I think one of them should talk the guy into confessing to her, but failing that, whoever knows him best.

I know it's never a good idea to meddle in other people's relationships, but it just seems so unfair on her otherwise.

Amanda said...

What an ass! This calls for vigilante justice!

The First March Girl said...

LOL!! Yes if all else fails, Amanda will step in with her own brand of justice :P

Ooh I see you have a photo now Amanda!

Amanda said...

Yes! I have no trouble meddling in the affairs of others, especially when someone is doing the wrong thing! And yes, I'm trying to find a better one!

Amanda said...

Geez, and since I added a photo I've had 100 more people look at my profile! I must be sexay!